I think we all have those doubts at some time what to do ,should we go or not ..it’s human nature ..people are people ,one tries to find a common element and the engage in conversations…age , personalities, social values and status all come into play for sure . My mother in-law used to say to me she never refused an invite as she always found something or someone interesting or enjoyable at the event or function …she said “you'll never know what you missed if you didn’t go “…that kinda stuck with me .I think she had it right!
I think we all have those doubts at some time what to do ,should we go or not ..it’s human nature ..people are people ,one tries to find a common element and the engage in conversations…age , personalities, social values and status all come into play for sure . My mother in-law used to say to me she never refused an invite as she always found something or someone interesting or enjoyable at the event or function …she said “you'll never know what you missed if you didn’t go “…that kinda stuck with me .I think she had it right!
I think we have all felt those feeling as you say. Also depends on your own mood. Do you want to be there??